I would ask GOD why is it, that I am the one that has to go through this and why do I have to be the one praying. Jeremiah 29:12-13: Then you will call upon Me and go and pray to Me, and I will listen to you. Outside of the Bible, nothing I have read lately about my separation has given me the hope and the plan to get my wife back. Please pray for restoration and strength and for my husband to be able to give us another try. When YOU are healed and recovered, the strength that GOD gives you and his grace that fills you, will shine through, that your husband will see GOD’s love upon you. Because it is truth, you are just waiting for His angels to get it to you. It has been 8 months, and I don’t know what he is doing, or if he is happy, or if he misses me at all. Allow him to have space and respect that space. Pray peace that surpasses understanding. We were so young and needed to learn lots. Another thing ive hust found out that he is married in another country to the mother of his children and is with her now Ive Spoken To a lawyer and he said the marriage from Honduras is not valid over here in the u.s. so basically hes legally married to us both not committing bigomy because of us residing in different countries she says she too is christian so how to pray for my marriage im not sure exactly what to say I know I want my marriage with my husband and I refuse to give up but how do you pray the other woman out, I am in exactly the same situation… have you managed to find a way how to deal with it? Ill pray for god to restore yourmarriage, im going through this also and I know its brutal. Weariness is a tactic of the devil. |. The victory belongs to The Lord. My wife and I are going through this after 19 years together. He met attorney and is having papers drawn up for divorce. Everything that has happened will be for the glory of God. I find myself going through old messages that he use to send me…As if I am clinging onto the past and looking for hope…I pray for faith, patience, wisdom and understanding because this is very difficult. please put us in your prayers, that God changes me and bring her back.. she doesn’t want to talk to anyone and i’m afraid that the advice she gets from others are negative since they are not christian and might not believe in not giving up to to move on.. please advise.I feel like am at the end of my rope.I’m loosing hope, I just found out that she is talking to other guys and might have gone out with one . MJ. we know it is confusing and emotions can be all over the place, those things are normal. He returned to Dallas, TX at the end of May 2013. I am going through this now. Please any advice would be helpful. He was stationed in Korea and we were in the U.S. During that time I fell into a deep depression, caring only of my pains and the unwillingness to live. He blocked me from Facebook (which doesn’t seem much of a big deal now, but did at the time!)…. Most importantly, this is about being an attractive person on the inside. I asked for the Pastor and Elder of the church to act as mediators between us but nothing has made her soften her heart toward me, and during the last meeting the Pastor and Elder had with her, she had told them that she had proceeded with divorce proceedings, but has halted the proceedings as she needs to make sure she isn’t sinning in doing so. Even though she is a Christian she does not want anything to do with God right now. This time around my hart is very hard. Please pray for and with me, as I shall for you. I want to spend rest of my life with him, i love him we were fighting but we used to correct our mistakes and everyone knows we are husband and wife and i want my God to help me to keep my Justin with us and unite as one family. Even though she won’t admit it. It’s not as though GOD has left you, it’s simply that you are not listening. He wanted the same. In it's wake, a wasteland filled with desperate bandits. There are times when you’re alone and you feel desperately lonely, and there are times you are thankful to be alone so you can fall apart without your spouse knowing it. So, just know that you can trust God to get you through this and you can believe He will not let you down. 4.4 out of 5 stars 248 ratings. In May 2009, he moved to Miami, FL, and we lost contact for about 6 months, until one day in November, a message popped up on my screen. Steve I would really like to know how things have turned out. She also has unresolved daddy issues. It sounds like your husband may be having a hard time dealing with his emotions and he is not sure how he should feel about what has happened. “What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate.” I have a hard time believing this as I feel people change the bible to their convenience. God is up there in the spiritual realm and satan and his demons are also up there in the spiritual realm. What does that really mean? This amounts to the prodigal spouse taking their infection to the next relationship, and the next and so on. Even he seems to have rejected me. I hope you continue to pray and seek the Lord. How could someone you care about so much give up on you so easily? And regardless of what happens to your marriage, you will want to come through this as a better person on the other side. That is where a great battle takes place because satan and his demons (the 1/3 of Gods angels that sided with satan and were cast down with him, now called dark angels, or better known as demons) try to fight Gods angels as they bring it through. Keep your little bookworms engaged outside of the classroom with our selection of the very best literary adaptations. Christian people I talk to keep telling me well if God didn’t put you together then it’s never going to work. If and when your husband does repent and works to save your marriage, you will need to accept the child from this other woman just like Wendi did from our story of Redeemed Marriages “Amazing Grace- Redeeming Love.” I hope this helps, we will be praying for you. As time went on I kept noticing more signs of an affair but my husband denied it over and over.